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Women can leave if they want to – There are many reasons why women don’t leave an abusive relationship: financial-she may depend on her partner’s income; emotional-she may feel that she can’t make it alone; low self-esteem, fear, and the belief that marriage is forever; concerned about what family and friends will think; feels she has nowhere else to go; does not know where to go for help; is embarrassed; she doesn’t want to break up the family.

 Alcohol/drugs cause an individual to become abusive – In many instances the use of alcohol/drugs will make an abusive situation worse but it does not cause it. Abuse is a manipulative technique used to instill fear and elicit control over another individual.

Women provoke abuse – No one deserves to be abused. Abusive partners use the excuse that they were provoked to escape taking responsibility for their abusive behaviour.

Only young women are abused – Abuse can happen to anyone in any form. Mature women in their 70’s and 80’s have sought shelter at Third Place.

Families are always supportive – Many families are very supportive of the abused member, but there are also many families who are not supportive. They feel that the abusive person is not being truthful, or that such things should be kept within the family and not made public. Some families have had abuse happen throughout generations so that to them it is a normal part of their family life. Abuse is not normal behaviour, it is wrong and some abuse can result in criminal charges.

Abusive partners are mentally ill – All abusers are not mentally ill. Some abusers use violence in certain situations while others use psychological abuse to intimidate and control. Most abusers are not abusive in other outside relationships.

He loves her but she makes him jealous – Relationships based on respect and trust are loving. Abusive partners will often get jealous when they feel that they may be losing control over their partner. The abusive partner has an irrational fear that he may lose his partner so chooses to react in a jealous manner. This is his choice and he could choose to react in an not-abusive way.

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Power imbalances can lead a person to consent out of pressure, fear, false trust, and more. Understanding the effects that power dynamics have on a person’s ability to consent reminds us that a “Yes” is not always genuine consent. If you believe you or someone you know has or is experiencing sexual violence, there are people here for you to help💜Third Place Transition House : 902-893-3232Colchester Sexual Assault Centre : 902-897-4366 #sexualassaultawarenessmonth #youarenotalone ... See MoreSee Less
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For this month’s Support Group we will be creating a safe space to discuss topics surrounding consent, boundaries, sexual violence, and other topics pertaining to Sexual Assault Awareness Month.Our Monthly Support Group encourages a supportive environment where individuals are safe to express feelings, struggles, and questions in participant-centred conversations. We also welcome those who may not feel comfortable contributing to conversation but still wish to be present to listen and learn! If you are interested in attending please call 902-893-3232 to register. ... See MoreSee Less
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Calling upon local businesses!Casual Friday in support of Third Place Transition House is a fun and simple effort to raise awareness for intimate partner violence while highlighting the businesses of our community! Participants can choose to donate a minimum of $2 to dress in casual attire on Fridays. These proceeds will go towards the construction of second stage housing for survivors of intimate partner violence. We are excited to see your team in their casual attire and look forward to highlighting participating businesses on our social media! We thank our community for it’s continuous support in the fight against intimate partner violence💜If you are interested in participating, learning more, or discussing other ways you can support Third Place, email olivia@thirdplaceth.ca #endgenderbasedviolence #endintimatepartnerviolence #youarenotalone @trurobuzz #believesurvivors ... See MoreSee Less
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